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How to De-Clutter your Life

Minimalism is not about having less. It’s about making room for more of what matters.

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I move in approximately 6 months from Williamsburg to Charlottesville … and I’m overwhelmed. I’m not nervous about meeting new friends, big career changes, or living with my boyfriend. Rather, it’s the thought of packing up all of my many belongings into boxes and moving them all into a tiny apartment.

Yeah, the apartment will likely be pretty small. But that’s just young adult life, especially when you’re both going into healthcare which means grad school AKA loooaaannssss.

To be honest, I don’t even think I own that much stuff, and I barely even shop — which is especially impressive since I literally work at a boutique.

However, the feeling I get when I try to visualize how many things I own is unmistakable. It just seems like it’s so much. And I think it’s not because I own x number of things, but rather because so many of them are just totally clutter. I believe the clutter is stressing me out more than I realize.

It’s also one of the Yamas in Yoga philosophy, Aparigraha, which means non-coveting. Aparigraha refers to the possession of only what is necessary and the letting go of everything else.

Tidying is the act of confronting yourself.

Marie Kondo

One of my goals for 2022 is to simplify my wardrobe and the rest of my belongings. To spend more time and money on experiences than material things. To not feel unorganized and cramped in our apartment. (So much room for activities!)

I’ll cut to the chase. I am once again attempting to Marie Kondo my life. This time however, it’s not during the summer with nothing else to do. I’m actually pretty busy working 3 jobs, taking classes, and working on applications.

So, I’m going to take it slow with small tasks. Maybe one per day, or more if I have time. For example, makeup and skincare, hanger clothes, or winter sweaters.

The things that I get rid of will be sold, donated, or tossed, depending on their state. I will try to document the process through pictures and numbers along the way, so… stay tuned.

Wish me luck. ESM.

Clutter smothers. Simplicity breathes.

Terry Guillemets
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